Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand. (Proverbs 19:21) Seemingly I am talking about myself again, but through all this I will point you to God. I have been a control freak all my life. I finally admit it today, it was hard. Let's see! As I look back at my teen years, I wanted to be in control through my anger against my parents. As an adult, our wedding was predominantly planned by me. I chose the colors of the wedding and made the wedding cake. Now when I delegate my wife to prepare a meal for us, I still want to look over her shoulder to make sure she does it right. I feel that as a former cook I always have to be in charge, even just a little. Can you relate to this? Aren't we funny? If only we knew how little in control we really are. We just like to do a lot of pretending. Pretend that we are in control. Nothing has changed from when we were young children. Furthermore, to top it all, I chose my profession