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Don’t miss it
I know that we are busy in life or rather that we like
to keep ourselves busy, while our infant girl or even teenager is crying
silently for our attention. They might
even be desperately wanting your approval or guidance in their life. But you will not give it to them simply
because…you are lost in your business.
Love is yet an essential need of anyone of any age. What you give to your children now is what
they will give you in return when they grow up and more. If they are miserable now chances are that
you will be miserable with them when they grow up. That is the fate we reap in our lives.
Be all there
My life with my children was good when I was ‘all
there’ with them. When I was not given
to worry about our finances and rapped in myself with divers’ anxieties. I enjoyed playtime with them, but not fully
there. It took us a while before I
realized that I needed medications to live well. Prior that time life was very chaotic; we
moved a lot. I can only use the past as
a springboard to the future and hopefully make your existence a bit better.
Grain of salt
My advice now with what I have learned would be if
they are willing to accept it: It is to
be truly there with your family, friends, and relatives, but most of all to be
there for your children. Because when
you and they grow older you will wish that all the time you have now as a
retired person you could spent it with them, but they will have then a job of
their own. So, make time now for them
while they are still in your house.
Worry robs you
Now I realize more than ever how things can rob us
from a high-quality life. If you worry, stop it now. It is robbing you from quality time with your
life. Why don’t you use worry to your
advantage and do something constructive with it. Act and go and play with your child or talk
with them. Worry is dead time. It is a waste of valuable time that we always
find ourselves ‘short of. We cannot say
then we don’t have time to our children or to our wife.
Because now we should have plenty of time when we don’t
worry anymore.
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